Lady sparks massive online debate after sharing her shocking experience with a man she went on a date with, who selfishly decided to buy food for only himself, leaving her stranded and embarrassed at the restaurant.
The lady, known as Success on TikTok, took to her page to narrate the unexpected turn of events during what was supposed to be a fun and romantic dating outing.

She revealed that as soon as they arrived, the man confidently ordered a big pack of pizza for himself alone, accompanied by a large bottle of drink. Throughout this, he made no attempt to ask her what she wanted to eat or even consider ordering for her, leaving her completely stunned and feeling neglected.
Success expressed her shock and disappointment in a viral TikTok video, describing his actions as not only stingy but also a clear sign that he might be financially unstable or simply inconsiderate. She further labeled him as "broke" and "stingy," emphasizing that she had never witnessed such behavior before on a supposed romantic outing.
To make matters worse, she later disclosed that the reason he refused to buy her food was because she had declined his invitation to follow him to his house after the date. She believed that his decision was a petty reaction to her choice to maintain her boundaries.
She captioned her video with a shocking revelation:
“This guy legitimately bought food for himself alone because I said I won’t follow him to his place”
Check out reactions below …
@Bigshow Rasky 💔🖤 said: “Brotherhood is proud of him 💀”
@jenny_mila remarked: “u should have ordered yours”
@March pixie💗🫦 wrote: “na to order for myself too he no go far..na why I dey work to save myself frm this embarrassment.or better still go home”
@THE SOCIAL FREAK👽 wrote: “Why ask a girl out on a date if u don’t have money 🙃 Nawa oo me if I no get at least 150kpa to blow up I can’t ask anyone out on a date ooo😂”
@OJ🤺 said: “Almajiri wey wear wig… you follow person go on a date only wetin dey inside your bag handkerchief and lipgloss no vex money😹😹🤣”
The video has since gone viral, sparking heated arguments online about dating etiquette, expectations, and how men and women should act on first dates. Many viewers criticized the man for his lack of courtesy and empathy, while others argued that Success should have also come prepared to pay for her own food.
Despite the mixed opinions, Success's story has resonated with many who believe her experience highlights the importance of communication and clear intentions when going out with someone new.
Watch video below …
@success1458This guy legitimately bought food for himself alone, because I said I won’t follow him to his place😂😂😂
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