Popular Nigerian actress, Anita Joseph, has expressed deep shock and concern after reports surfaced about two Lagos socialites engaging in a heated fight over a female lover.
The drama reportedly unfolded when both women, known to be influential and affluent figures within Lagos social circles, discovered that they were unknowingly dating the same woman. This revelation sparked an intense confrontation that left many onlookers stunned.

Anita Joseph, reacting to the unusual love triangle, took to her social media page and shared a video of herself appearing visibly shocked. Her reaction highlighted the increasing complexity of modern relationships and the shifting dynamics in romantic connections.
In her statement, the actress pointed out that in today’s world, it’s not just men other men need to worry about when it comes to their partners. They also need to be cautious about the possibility of their women being romantically involved with other women.
She said:
“Now you don’t have to be scared of your woman following a man, you have to be scared of your woman following another woman.”
Her statement has since gone viral, sparking widespread reactions on social media, with many users expressing their own views about the evolving nature of relationships in the modern world.
Check out reactions that followed …
@ACTIVE_SQUARE said: “It gets scarier day by day”
@OakACU wrote: “For a girl contacts list, I see my love. When the call came in, na woman voice I hear. I’m getting it now 😀”
@stock_snr commented: “You get update now pass everyone on X.”
@best__09 wrote: “It’s surprising to see that dynamics changing, Love can be quite unpredictable sometimes.”
Watch the video below …
“Now you don’t have to be scared of your woman following a man, you have to be scared of your woman following another woman.”😳🙆
-Actress Anita Joseph expresses shock after two Lagos big girls fight over their female lover. pic.twitter.com/iT9AYciZR7
— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) June 3, 2025